The real Dad: the one to wish for.

Focus:proverbs 11:29, Romans13:1-4,Mathew20:25-28,colossians3:21, Ephesians6:4,Hebrew12:7, Romans13:9-10,Proverbs29:17.


* Real dad expresses his authority selflessly for the peace and comfort of  his family. He does not provoke his children, he does all he can to encourage and love his family. The real Dad knows that he is there to care for and protect his family. He understands that his leadership is better shown through service.

*The real Dad knows the importance of teaching his children through example. He is a perfect role model. He does not just instruct, but he does what he expects. he understands that he is the first role model the idol for his Sons. The first boy friend to his daughter. He is gentle and careful in all he does. He is the pride of his wife and daughters. He's sons are quick to let everyone know who he is ; that's my Dad they say.

*The real Dad understands the importance of spending his youth with his family. He realises that nothing can substitute for the time not spent with his family. Yes there's need to work and provide for his family. But he understands that keeping in touch is part of provision; the real love. He knows that time spent with the family is invaluable. It gives the children a sense of belonging and security. They are confident that the are wanted appreciated and cherished. It is very important to bring to a balance the time spent working with that spent with the family. Most of the issues with young people these days is mostly centred on the epidemics of absent Dads. Providing your children with gadgets have proven not to substitute for the love of a real Dad. Material possessions - namely; gadgets; smart phones and game consoles have been reported to be one of the highest causes of child hood depressions and attention problems in children. Children who spend quality time with their parents are most likely  to do well in school and life.  Thus wrote the poet :"Give your child the best,Of your youth.At old age,You will know rest."

* Real Dad is one who is a very attentive listener. He does not just listen. But he listens with compassion. He brings himself to understand the needs of his family. He's priority is always his family. He finds it easy to relate positively with his family. He is ready to answer his children's questions. He listens to his children's heart beats. he understands what they feel and does his best to keep a relationship which is accessible to his family. He does not scare his children and his girls look forward to letting him into their world. He is their best friend.

*Real Dad is a real helper. He is  ever ready to take on the job. He is not fighter or wife beaters. They does not abuse his children. He uses his hands and feet to sort the needs of his family but not on his wife's or children's body. His manhood is not expressed  by intimidating everyone of the family rather he is soft hearted, compassionate and passionate and yet disciplined.